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Saturday, September 22, 2012

The Art of a Kiss


A kiss can signal more than just a feeling, but rather short circuit one’s system the moment his or her lips touch. A kiss creates communications beyond words and is the beginning of volumes in emotions. If the kiss is done properly, the man communicates his intentions, and the woman can answer the man’s tactile statement. This statement could say, “I love you” or “I need you” or “I want you.” Either way, the communication is clearly stated by the way the kiss is presented. In every lifestyle this presentation is true.

On the flipside, if a kiss is delivered badly, one seals his or her fate, especially if a new relationship is in the works. Therefore, before this goes any further, one should ask themselves, “Where do I measure?” As long as one has kissed in their lives, have they learned any skills or techniques that keep the event fresh?  At times romance is in a rut and these established skills are taken for granted. Seriously, think about it, is the person good at a kiss or could the act use some invigorating help?
 

To become a better kisser, here are some key points to consider in helping one become a superior kisser. These skills will enhance the individual’s ability to weaken the knee or create that cardio marathon. One should use the skills that work best for the situation. Some skills are not what one looks for but can use the acts in the experiment to hone the ability to please his or her partner.
 

Never underestimate the use of eye contact. The delivery is important, and just like any delivery it should never be late. If one cannot read the signals, it is better not to try until you can. One method is to move closer SLOWLY to the recipient. An invitation will not be spoken here, and one should never ask if it is alright to proceed. Do not invade one’s space, just inch closer to the target, and do not make physical contact. This will build anxiety, and look for the flicker of his or her eyes as they look toward one’s lips for confirmation. This will show the way to the intense act of a passionate caress of the lips. In other words: a kiss, a lip-lock, sucking face, a make-out session, etc.
 

A make-out session should conclude with an element of adorability. This element could include a tiny series of pecks on the cheek, the forehead or temple, and the tip of the nose. With passion in the works, it is important to stop for a breather and look into his or her eyes before moving in for another kiss—this is rapture. A rapturous kiss when not expecting it is sexy. On the flipside, when strolling in the park or at the mall, from nowhere, press up against a partner’s body, wrap an arm around them and make-out passionately. Do not care who walks by! This will create a passionate memory that will last a lifetime.
 

A passionate kiss is imperative to the success of a continued relationship. Kiss slowly and make sure to read the movements of one’s partner. If one wants to continue kissing in any liaison than one should mean it and constantly induce passion to the act. Be strong in this point, and mix these ingredients into the kiss. One should kiss long, add the slow part here, and add a splash of kissing deeply and hard. A passionately hot kiss is garnished with either a hand wrapped around one’s waist or fingers gently in his or her hair right behind one’s neck. Most people adore their hair fiddled with and the slightest pressure showing support at the neck.  Do this at once and watch the fireworks commence.

One can display fireworks in another way by stealing a kiss like a thief in the night. This technique is a winner every time. Kisses are not always delivered face-to-face; sometimes kisses need to be a surprise. When a relationship begins, one takes his or her mate on dates. Never stop taking dates, this creates ruts and contention. Try this on the next date, and become the rogue partners’ looks for. One should excuse him or herself to freshen up at a bar, a restaurant, the game, etc. When returning, steal up behind them and put a hand around his or her waist and kiss the side of the recipient’s neck just under the ear. This brazen act will send quivers down one’s spine. Add a secret to this act and whisper into his or her ear to cement the longevity of this association.


Last, enhance your kiss with a heartfelt embrace. One should hug his or her partner to the right side. By doing this act the couple aligns hearts which are at the closest convergence in an embrace and the couple will feel the heartbeat of his or her partner. The power of this embrace can send chills through the couple and this fire will ignite any relationship to the next level. Always conduct yourself like a lady or a gentleman while committing to a relationship. There will always be time for naughty behavior if one plays his or her cards right and this is another topic to write about in the future.
 
In the meantime, a person needs the right amount of confidence and tenderness to deliver a proper kiss. Over-confident is a huge turn-off for many, and men and women despise a potential partner who is over-confident in oneself. With eye-contact, adorability, passion, risks, and communication one can enjoy a lifetime in a relationship. If this is what one wishes, and by following these simple rules, let the kissing commence.

Sunday, September 9, 2012

The Gift-for-Gab Chili Cook off

I would love to say I won the chili cook-off last year, but I didn't. However, I did win the "Gift-for-Gab" ribbon for having the most clothes pins by the end of the night. That was a fun game. The way to have the most clothes pins is to take a pin away from the other players if they uttered a forbidden word. I started off slow because "NO" was the forbidden word. I guess I use the word "NO" too much. Then the words changed and I championed the event. The winning words were Can then it was I and last the word was Happy. I must not use these last words often in my conversations.

I CAN say I am HAPPY that NO was not the word for the night!


Here is my award winning chili
Rattledash Chili
1/4 c. olive oil
2 medium green peppers
1 medium jalapeno pepper, roasted
1 large onion, diced
3 cloves garlic, minced
2 lb. pork shoulder, diced
2 lb. Tri-tip, diced
1/2 qt. tomato juice
1 (15 oz.) can tomato sauce
1 (15 oz.) can stewed tomatoes
1 tbsp. black pepper
1 tbsp. sea salt
2 tbsp. brown sugar
1 tsp. cumin, ground
1 tsp. cayenne pepper, ground
1/2 tbsp. crushed red pepper flake
1 tbsp. chili powder
1 tsp. dry mustard
1 tbsp. paprika
1/2 tsp. cloves


Chop into small pieces all vegetables and meat
Heat oil in large pot or Dutch oven
Sauté vegetables and meat in oil
When meat has browned add seasonings, stewed tomatoes and tomato sauce.
Add tomato juice as needed while chili simmers for approximately 4 hours.
Add cheese and diced onions to the top for something extra.