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Monday, May 14, 2012

The Six Trials of Falling in Love


Thought by Patrick Tremblay

DESIRE

The big OMG, the heavy sigh, and the twinge that someone waited for in life; here he or she finds the one person or thing that they can't live without in a relationship. They have found the one thing they think is the most incredible treasure one has ever laid his or her eyes to see.  The beauty, the manner, the enormousness of what creates desire is overwhelming.

Craving isn't wrong in desire. It's a necessity we need to direct us in thought, voice, and actions. One loses the will to eat or sleep or think when concerning desire. Desire is the best thing to happen to you because it creates the lust in one's soul that develops growth. It works because it is new and has never happened before so desire is your new partner in the mambo or the stars that twinkle in your eyes.

PLEASURE

You are ready to scream Yahoo! The delight in the pit of your stomach; the bliss that makes you a superhero and you're the strongest human being in the world. You feel as if nothing can get in your way. You will treasure this happiness, and you will remember how attractive you feel when you have this joy in your heart. Everything smells better, looks nicer, and the song has more meaning when you have the rapture overflowing in your life.

You take the time to breathe, and you sigh in relief. You begin to think how lucky you are, but do not over think your pleasure. Don't focus on your skills or your performance in life. You should stay focused on the result, not the journey. When doubt comes out to play, it cheats and plays dirty. Don't take this love for granted or darkness will eclipse your happiness and fear appears at your doorstep.

ANXIETY

Doubt, fear, and apprehension begin as you relax and set in for a happy life. One day you rinse off your hair in the shower, and you feel the smallest exclamation, "Uh-oh!" Terror grabs your shirt tails and wraps its cold arms around your heart like a vice. Its cousin's remorse, disappointment, and recollection of memories begin to seep into your mind. You dread looking idiotic to them or to anyone that observes you acting blindly for love.

You mutter questions to yourself like, "Why do they love me?" with uncertainty, or "What if I make a mistake?" with skepticism. Don't let the blinders stay on too long or stay for your pity party. Work on your intestinal fortitude and not how your family will debase you at dinner. Love yourself, and others do; think of the attraction and work on avoiding repugnance too late.  

Revulsion

This behavior brings the desire to stay in and watch movies, eat for comfort, and become more acquainted with your bedrooms ceiling pattern. Doubt has overcome, and you begin to feel disgusted with what you feel instead of what you see. Shortfalls stand out, and their insufficiency overpowers attributes. Your love starts to smell the foul stench of meagerness.

Feelings begin to question and waiver, and disbelief creeps in where certainty dwelled. Realization sets a pace, and you comprehend this is love. This love you have been waiting for since you were young. This feeling is past the lust, and then you are where you expect naively for it to appear. It has a name, and that name is love.

Reality

You are in love, and it is tough. You never knew there was so much to be aware of then with love. The truth of the matter is you are a player in a Risk and Strategy contest. You can only take one prize, and you have to work hard to win. You may lose, but it never ends in a tiebreaker. Love never comes easy, and if it did, many people wouldn't play. With any challenge, you like the saying; "me, me, and me!" If you don't get what you want, you are upset or afraid to pay your dues.

This love can hurt, and without honest emotion, the gift can be damaging. Don't horde this love, and it is best to let it grow on its own. Use your heart for good; it is solid, but it can be very foolish. You may have found love, love is right, embrace love, scream about it to everyone, but don't smother it. Admiration can cause damage to both, not just one.

The Finish line

This pole position is just the tip of a long and harmonious ride. The ride you aim for, and it is time to throw it all in. Love! This position is a challenging and wholesome emotion, and it makes the lovers stronger and wiser as time goes on. Commitment is the finish line and a reward. Love will permeate your body and soul, and when it is all said and done, you will do the mambo to any tune right or wrong.

Take the high road and go for it.

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